It is a crime to let abuse continue. So u need to put a.stop.to it.
But arguing, dighting back will.not work, i think. It will just create greater tension in. The household and more fights with ur poor mom probably caught in the middle. Please dont blame ur mom. She had no options. I admire her she did so.much under the circumstances. In india she could not leave ur dad cuz she had no way to support herself. So if she left ur dad, she would be a burden on her parents and she could not support her children. Still she stood up against him and took u to doctors. But u do have options. U r in the UK and can support urself. So set a goal. That u will not tolerate abuse. So u can try fighting back but i dont think it will work. So wat u have to do is get a job and start saving so that u can move out. And then convince ur mom to move out as well. That will really serve ir dad right. When he is all alone and has noone to vent his abuse on. Also take ur brother with u, if u can. But be careful, lots of time biys learn how to be abusive and controlling from their dad. So see if ur bro is turning into ur dad or not. If he is, leave him.
So even if ir depressed, try. I know it will be hard, but try. U have a goal to get out of this abuse and to get ir mom and bro out too. Also to make enough money to pay for depression meds. So start working with these goals in mind. Also do paath, there is bani that helps.with kalesh in the house. Read Gauri M:5 Thir ghar baiso shabad and aukhi ghari na dekhan dei. Also do japji sahib and sukhmani sahib if possible. Most importantly tho, pray, beg, guruji to help u. To help u get out of this abuse. Cry to god and he will listen.
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