Guru ji institute of married life is not for extorting money from the girl's parents otherwise why would Guru Sahib ji tell his sikhs that the bridegroom's party should be as small as possible and to the Girl's parents preference and not to pressurise or endebt them ? For a guy's parents to sell their son shows their low thought pattern and lack of sikh sanskars. Is the boy's mouth taped up can he not tell them what is wrong ?
Sikhi isn't about races , find a place where Guru ji said anything that only INdians could be sikhs ? Neither he nor I put any demand on my parents or his parents we earned our money to spend , something that most boys don't do , often I've seen guys who have zero paise, zero prospects , zero sanskars looking for brides : why? because they think like you: we can extort paise from the girl's folks . Didn't the girl's parents educate their daughter, ensure she has sanskars, she has a job or profession? yes of course they do because the guys expect it and they want their daughter to be capable. The boy's folks make their daughter-in-law into a wage slave and still make demands on top of this , it is shameful behaviour which Sant ji did not tolerate for Hindu daughter what do you think he would say for sikh bibian ?
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