All behaviour is discussable. Especially destructive behaviour, as it is so common and easy to do - as well as harmful (me and you can do it as much as the next person). Behaviour can also be manipulated by outside forces. It's Pak understanding of the behaviour of many of our girls and our wider community (i.e. hiding things to keep face) that made them target us for grooming for instance.
Look at CP in the Dasam Granth. That is essentially a massive exploration of behaviour.
And women and men do have different characteristics. It helps if we make efforts to understand each others differences sometimes.
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