If you read my first paragraph, that's exactly what I'm saying. Things have moved on, but the elders here are under the impression that it's still like 40yrs ago. They don't see the other side of it, where there are boyfriends and girlfriends or even as friends.
But still in some pinds it's still arranged marriage, as in the boy and girl are introduced to each other by a middle somebody and then they get to know each other and decide to get married if they wish to, but they can also say no.
Some parents here think the girls and guys are there like gold compared to here which they would class as silver. That's because they either fail to accept the truth of what it's like or because they simply must be under the impression that you have given paji.
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