I never said follow white culture. You've seen the op ask if she'd be a good sikh if she left- her question had nothing to do with Sikhi and everything to do with Brown culture.
Most asian women I know around my age who are married are unhappy, at being beaten, treated badly, cheated on etc. Theyre too scared to leave their spouse's because they think it would look bad, they spent so much money on the wedding, how will they make it on their own etc.
There is No Price you can put on freedom, the Gurus taught us that when they refused to convert, when they stood up for hindus who were not free to practice their beliefs. To live in fear because of a soul who has chosen to treat one badly is choosing to live in fear.
Only the OP can decide but she should at least have called the police and dealt with the situation.
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