@sikhni777 @Lionesswoman
I get what you're saying. I don't support women getting getting abused like this myself. And as you can see, most if not all people here have condemned it! But be careful of tying such behaviour to 'browness'. I've seen white men do similar too. Plenty of blacks too. And in the end, if you do that, you just end up supporting the white supremacist agenda of vilifying all nonwhite men (whilst they rampantly paedophile all over the place!)
We've already got too many apnay who've got deeply ingrained inferiority complexes to other communities, let's not encourage this further. I think we are clearly learning as a society (in the diaspora at least, forget those pendus back home, they'll have to catch up in their own time). Less and less people tolerate this type of crap, and what we do notice is that it is usually a particular type of conservative, image obsessed, social climber type (who often make extra effort to demonstrate their 'adherence' to normative rules of the faith), that value their projected image over any sort of ethical stance that might compromise this - they are the ones who try and hide this away. Maybe some of your own parents were like this? But let's not turn this into an excuse for self-hate.
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