first things first NO SIKH should ever use the word Kurdi for a female , its root is koorda rubbish trash, yes that kind of trash . This word is a Hindu Punjabi idea because Putaar means that person who will help the parent cross the river Pu (afterlife belief of hindu) to the desh of devtey , this of course considered the sons because he does the rasams and paat to achieve this . The daughter however cannot do this and so is considered useless /trash thus Koordi.
Give a female the respect Guru ji gave her and use respectful. positive words like sister, mother, bibi ji
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