Thank you JKV and yes you are right it is not an official diagnosis as she refuses therapy or to visit any shrink (even if i pay).
https://www.helpguide.org/articles/personality-disorders/borderline-personality-disorder.htm
The only behaviors she doesn't do (as far as i know) is take drugs or have sex with other men.
Having said that she cries hysterically if she doesn't get it when she wants and she has a high drive.
I have managed to get her to go to the Doctor's but not to discuss her inner main issues only superficial health issues.
Lucking she does take Vitamin B complex but sadly on the depression/anger/emptiness/crying it hasn't made any difference.
I really wish I could help more but I have tried for 18 months and I feel that i don't break free now I will be dragged down with her as after a while all the depression/tears/criticism of me/running down of my parents has created distance in the marriage.
My heart feels like if i am supposedly the cause of all her problems then maybe we can be happier apart.
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