How many of these guys are people who've grown up in the west I wonder? I'd bet a fair portion of these itinerant romeos are actually desi boys who've got pukkah in the west and are taking liberties with it back home.
The other thing is what Genie mentioned. I know PLENTY of apnay who've been tricked into going back home ("We are just going to look at girls, you don't have to choose one.") who are then suddenly pressured into marriage, once there. You know what some parents can be like. Then the rest of the extended family fudhus start laying it on out there too! lol
Next thing you know, a blokes agreed to a wedding (under duress). When they get back home then, it's no wonder they don't look back.
Those other types that get a girl pregnant and scarpers is a lowlife creature - but then again back-home apnay (YET AGAIN!) are actually like completely guileless luloos to keep falling for that one, Let's be frank, they are so desperate or hungry to get a family member out, they lose all common sense in protecting themselves in these circs.
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