A fair portion of the guys (from here) who go back home for marriages are ones who can't get a girl from here (not all before people jump on my case!). Some of them that are compelled to do this aren't very confident around girls and have little experience around them. So when they get pressurised by family, alone and isolated in a foreign land, they also have to deal with the new experience of having a girl that doesn't appear to mind them. All of this works together to make some people do some dumb, confused ashqiyan on the spur of the moment. I've seen it happen to a family member of mine - but thankfully after a year or two of blanking her they eventually got back together and are now happily married. lol
Point is, some blokes are victims of all this too. But honkys aren't interested in that - they just want to continually push their 'savage misogynistic native and noble white knight hero' narrative - even when these jerks couldn't even protect thousand of girls from abuse in their own country, under their own noses. A bigger bunch of tossers you could not find.
And people back home need to fix up and stop falling for every trick in the book. From getting duped by people offering 'opportunities' abroad to people using their daughters under the pretext of marriage. Plus the people back home don't seem to care that boys get coerced into marriages.
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