First off Guest AH thanks so much for taking that time on my request with your reply, i really appreciate it.
Yes you were absolutely right she rows back about divorce when she is not in a bad mood.
Yes it's clear that she has go to counseling (which I am happy to go to as well separately so that she doesn't feel victimised).
You were also right that even if she was with another person the BPD won't go away (though perhaps might not be triggered as often) so counseling is vital either way. Perhaps me saying that I am going to counseling might encourage her to do what's necassary (along with me suggesting that divorce could become a reality if things don't change for the better for both of us).
Thank you
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