According to Gurbani, anybody can attain liberation whether Grehasti or Bairaagi.
Being Grehasti obviously means people can, had & are having sex !
Adharam is extra marital sex.
If one takes path of a Bairaagi then he should remain detached.
Now most wannabes remain engrossed in Moh & Maya, making them Abhaagis or namesake Bairaagis.
Ang 550 Line 15 Raag Bihaagrhaa: Guru Amar Das
ਦਰਵੇਸੀ ਕੋ ਜਾਣਸੀ ਵਿਰਲਾ ਕੋ ਦਰਵੇਸੁ ॥
Dharavaesee Ko Jaanasee Viralaa Ko Dharavaes ||
दरवेसी को जाणसी विरला को दरवेसु ॥
How rare is the dervish, the Saintly renunciate, who understands renunciation.
ਜੇ ਘਰਿ ਘਰਿ ਹੰਢੈ ਮੰਗਦਾ ਧਿਗੁ ਜੀਵਣੁ ਧਿਗੁ ਵੇਸੁ ॥
Jae Ghar Ghar Handtai Mangadhaa Dhhig Jeevan Dhhig Vaes ||
जे घरि घरि हंढै मंगदा धिगु जीवणु धिगु वेसु ॥
Cursed is the life, and cursed are the clothes, of one who wanders around, begging from door to door.
15 ਬਿਹਾਗੜੇ ਕੀ ਵਾਰ: (ਮ: ੩) ਗੁਰੂ ਗ੍ਰੰਥ ਸਾਹਿਬ : ਅੰਗ ੫੫੦ ਪੰ. ੧੫
Raag Bihaagrhaa Guru Amar Das
There is no shame in accepting Grehasti Jeevan, Baba Baljit Singh Daduwal did it by marrying late.
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