Guest Anonymous jee,
first of all, please remove the idea from your mind that God punishes. Wahiguru is an infinite ocean of daya meher, prem, pyaar.
He can never judge nor punish anyone, that is not His role. It is our agaynta which makes us think so. Just think, if He were to judge and punish anyone, which door for mercy would that jeeva go for?
It is absurd, it is all bahamanvadee and manmukhs who have spread such infamy of God. The whole world is insane, talking about God, as if they knew Him personally, and then due to this agyanta, the stupids fight and kill each others, trying to impose their blind faiths over others, it is sickening to see such mental retarded people.
But what else can they do? They never go through the Bani, and those who go, go through it, like swimming in a swimming pool, just on the surface; when the fact is, the Gems of Universal Truth, are got by diving deep into the Bani, means, by putting into practice what it says.
Just from the starting, the Bani says:
Ikoankar Satnam,Satgur Parsad, Jaap.
There is only one Lord God, who is True Naam, and who is realized, by His Grace, when we do the jaap of His Naam. That is it, so simple and so straight Gurmat.
Brother, do not force anything on anybody, to whom do we belong? Who belong to us? Everybody is responsible, for his/her own destiny. Be gentle and loving nevertheless with your family members, stick to the principles of Gurmat, as stated here, and if it His "Mauj", they will be attracted to Sikhee, by watching the positive changes in you.
Sikhee is indeed wonderful, there is no comparison to Sikhee in the whole creation, not because I say so, but because Gurmat in the form of Gurbani, is the blessings upon us jeevas by Guru Sahiban, to attain union with Wahiguru in this very birth, if only we apply it in our lives, as a loving relationship with Him.
It is not that difficult ....
Just by getting admission in a well known best school, with best teachers... one does not get any type of graduation, it is only by understanding and remebering what the teachers teach, that one passes the different levels, until one reaches the highest and graduates The teachers are to guide, but just by looking at the teachers and talking about the walls of the classes or the palyground, one achieves nothing...so teachings, learning, understanding and remembering them, are the steps to graduation.
And this learning each and everyone has to do it for himself or herself, no parents, no friends, nor realtives can do anything for anybody, each one is here to become a better human being, and a better soul; in short, a perfect sikh, to get union with Wahiguru Akal Purukh.
We come alone, and alone we have to leave, our sole relation is with Akal Purukh alone. And, that should be our main concern, in this human life. Not that we should forget our duties, our obligations with our realtives... it is just to put forward our priorities.
We can not say, I just want Wahiguru and do His bhakti, and forget everything else ...
We should remeber, we have karmic adjustments to finish, if we run away from them, we will not be able to do His Bhakti either. The thing is to stay in this world but not be a part of it, to the extent, we bind ourselves in the world and get lost in it, and forget Him, or to only remember Him selfishly, in times of need or pain.
Go through the Bani slowly, try to find and understand, the message what Guru Sahiban want to tell us, in each and every anmol bachans of them.
God bless you.
Sat Sree Akal.
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