We need to understand context of this bachan. Guru maharaj ji is never against anyone sharda and pyaar so its not fully condemned or seen as manmat (black and white). So with that kept in mind, guru maharaj is also giving cautionary updesh to his sikhs, dont caught up in condtioned cycle on form, dont fixate your surti(consciouness) on anything which has form - sargun even subtle form of sargun- akhri shabad, shabad dhun - all expereince will appear and disappear- appear again so its transient- Only permanent form of Satguru/shabad gian(eternal awareness) under all this drama is played endures- gyan saroop of shabad. Surrender yourself let satguru consume you over and over again. Abide in satguru inside all of us- unconditioned natural being and be that:
ਸਤਿਗੁਰੁਮੇਰਾਸਦਾਸਦਾਨਾਆਵੈਨਾਜਾਇ॥ਓਹੁਅਬਿਨਾਸੀਪੁਰਖੁਹੈਸਭਮਹਿਰਹਿਆਸਮਾਇ॥੧੩॥: Satiguru meraa sadaa sadaa n aavai n jaai. Ohu abinaasee purakhu hai sabh mahi rahiaa samaai ||13||: My Satguru is Everlasting (Immortal, etc.); He neither comes nor goes (i.e., beyond birth and death). He Himself is the Imperishable Being (Eternal, Parmeshar, Parmaatam, Prabh, Mool, Jot, etc.) who, pervades among all ||13|| (sggs 759).
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