I believe in marriage and being a good partner if we want to have a good partner in return, it's not about winning in a selfish self-centred way but, supporting and sharing i.e. team win. Veer ji is trying hard to understand something that is beyond the average experience but there is always hope. I would suggest not saying to someone you need to see a shrink (instantly defensive) because it shuts down the trust and mutual respect.
Perhaps ask her how she sees sex since she is compensation/medicating her stress that way, if something at work is triggering the crying jags ... is she looking to get pregnant ? so many possibilities it will take time to unravel , but I still stand by the idea she sees her GP and talks about her problems with the doctor he/she will know how to handle it.
What is her profession ?
↧