Not a good situation to be in.
SGGS Ang 403 has some strong lines which tell us and give us support to stand firm in character when faced with difficulties.
(No one has bothered to answer because no one actually knows except you and her about why and how you ended up in this situation.)
However making some assumptions I will guess end some answers. It may be any of these, however it is for you to find out.
1. She may have turned ultra religious such that she feels a sexual relationship will affect her bhagti.
2. She has some health problem which probably gets better the further away she stays from you.
3. She has found someone else. This is a ploy of separate bedrooms and stuff... and after a while she will drop the divorce bomb on you first.
4. She may be stressed out doing some studying and work at the same time and feel you keep getting on the way - so best way is lead separate lives.
5. You have not been good to her and she is bitter to you because of something - and has decided to get her revenge and enjoy to see you suffer slowly.
Either way there are solutions ... the first of which is communication. You need to try to talk and find out. If it does not work... then unfortunately you may have to spy on her and see what she is doing, whom she is meeting and what her secret agenda is.
Whatever way you choose - best of luck!!!!!!!
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